{"id":271156,"date":"2025-02-16T05:31:42","date_gmt":"2025-02-16T05:31:42","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/michigandigitalnews.com\/index.php\/2025\/02\/16\/your-guide-to-prioritizing-what-matters\/"},"modified":"2025-06-25T17:09:21","modified_gmt":"2025-06-25T17:09:21","slug":"your-guide-to-prioritizing-what-matters","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/michigandigitalnews.com\/index.php\/2025\/02\/16\/your-guide-to-prioritizing-what-matters\/","title":{"rendered":"Your Guide to Prioritizing What Matters"},"content":{"rendered":"<p> [ad_1]<br \/>\n<\/p>\n<div>\n<p class=\"has-drop-cap\">By mid-February, the initial rush of New Year\u2019s resolutions has faded, but that doesn\u2019t mean it\u2019s too late for a <a href=\"https:\/\/camillestyles.com\/wellness\/how-to-change\/\">fresh start<\/a>. Organizing expert <a href=\"https:\/\/shiragill.com\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Shira Gill<\/a> invites us to take a thoughtful, intentional approach to personal growth by conducting a \u201clife audit\u201d\u2014a simple, yet impactful, process of evaluating key areas of our lives, from career and finance to hobbies and well-being. By honestly assessing where we stand and identifying where to focus, we gain the clarity needed to align our energy with what truly matters.<\/p>\n<p>In this exclusive excerpt from her new book <em><a href=\"https:\/\/rstyle.me\/+erBo1A-T2ac65wW6vbTRFw\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener nofollow\">LifeStyled<\/a>,<\/em> Shira Gill shares her process for conducting a life audit each year, offering a clear method for identifying what matters most and where to focus our efforts. Her approach encourages us to reflect, prioritize, and take intentional action, all while embracing the practice of self-compassion and realistic goal-setting. Read on for Shira\u2019s actionable steps and insightful prompts to kickstart meaningful change.<\/p>\n<p><em>Featured image from <a href=\"https:\/\/camillestyles.com\/beauty\/monique-volz-ambitious-kitchen\/\">our interview with Monique Volz<\/a> by <a href=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/suruchiavasthi\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Suruchi Avasthi<\/a>.<\/em><\/p>\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"865\" height=\"1297\" src=\"https:\/\/camillestyles.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/02\/coffee-books-reading-coffee-table-how-to-do-a-life-editjpg-865x1297.jpg\" alt=\"Woman reading coffee table books about how to do a life edit.\" class=\"wp-image-290723\" srcset=\"https:\/\/camillestyles.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/02\/coffee-books-reading-coffee-table-how-to-do-a-life-editjpg-865x1297.jpg 865w, https:\/\/camillestyles.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/02\/coffee-books-reading-coffee-table-how-to-do-a-life-editjpg-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/camillestyles.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/02\/coffee-books-reading-coffee-table-how-to-do-a-life-editjpg-768x1151.jpg 768w, https:\/\/camillestyles.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/02\/coffee-books-reading-coffee-table-how-to-do-a-life-editjpg-1024x1536.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/camillestyles.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/02\/coffee-books-reading-coffee-table-how-to-do-a-life-editjpg-1366x2048.jpg 1366w, https:\/\/camillestyles.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/02\/coffee-books-reading-coffee-table-how-to-do-a-life-editjpg-150x225.jpg 150w, https:\/\/camillestyles.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/02\/coffee-books-reading-coffee-table-how-to-do-a-life-editjpg.jpg 1500w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 865px) 100vw, 865px\"\/><\/figure>\n<div id=\"collaborator-block_b2f8e2f3418afd268854eac96dd183cf\" class=\"acf-block block-collaborator\" style=\"margin-top: var(--wp--preset--spacing--medium);margin-bottom: var(--wp--preset--spacing--medium);\">\n<div class=\"block-collaborator__headshot\">\n\t\t\t<img loading=\"lazy\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"200\" height=\"300\" src=\"https:\/\/camillestyles.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/Shira-Gill-by-Vivian-Johnson.jpg\" class=\"attachment-medium size-medium wp-post-image\" alt=\"\" srcset=\"https:\/\/camillestyles.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/Shira-Gill-by-Vivian-Johnson.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/camillestyles.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/Shira-Gill-by-Vivian-Johnson-865x1297.jpg 865w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 200px) 100vw, 200px\"\/>\t\t<\/div>\n<div class=\"block-collaborator__right\">\n<p>\t\t\t\t\t<span class=\"block-collaborator__name\"><br \/>\n\t\t\t\tShira Gill\t\t\t<\/span><\/p>\n<p>\t\t\t\t\t<span class=\"block-collaborator__instagram\"><br \/>\n\t\t\t\t<a href=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/shiragill\/\" target=\"_blank\" aria-label=\"View Shira Gill's Instagram\" rel=\"noopener\"><br \/>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<svg xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" width=\"20px\" height=\"23px\" viewbox=\"0 0 448 512\"><path d=\"M224.1 141c-63.6 0-114.9 51.3-114.9 114.9s51.3 114.9 114.9 114.9S339 319.5 339 255.9 287.7 141 224.1 141zm0 189.6c-41.1 0-74.7-33.5-74.7-74.7s33.5-74.7 74.7-74.7 74.7 33.5 74.7 74.7-33.6 74.7-74.7 74.7zm146.4-194.3c0 14.9-12 26.8-26.8 26.8-14.9 0-26.8-12-26.8-26.8s12-26.8 26.8-26.8 26.8 12 26.8 26.8zm76.1 27.2c-1.7-35.9-9.9-67.7-36.2-93.9-26.2-26.2-58-34.4-93.9-36.2-37-2.1-147.9-2.1-184.9 0-35.8 1.7-67.6 9.9-93.9 36.1s-34.4 58-36.2 93.9c-2.1 37-2.1 147.9 0 184.9 1.7 35.9 9.9 67.7 36.2 93.9s58 34.4 93.9 36.2c37 2.1 147.9 2.1 184.9 0 35.9-1.7 67.7-9.9 93.9-36.2 26.2-26.2 34.4-58 36.2-93.9 2.1-37 2.1-147.8 0-184.8zM398.8 388c-7.8 19.6-22.9 34.7-42.6 42.6-29.5 11.7-99.5 9-132.1 9s-102.7 2.6-132.1-9c-19.6-7.8-34.7-22.9-42.6-42.6-11.7-29.5-9-99.5-9-132.1s-2.6-102.7 9-132.1c7.8-19.6 22.9-34.7 42.6-42.6 29.5-11.7 99.5-9 132.1-9s102.7-2.6 132.1 9c19.6 7.8 34.7 22.9 42.6 42.6 11.7 29.5 9 99.5 9 132.1s2.7 102.7-9 132.1z\"\/><\/svg><br \/>\n\t\t\t\t<\/a><br \/>\n\t\t\t<\/span><\/p>\n<div class=\"block-collaborator__description\">\n<p>Shira Gill is a globally recognized home-organizing expert, bestselling author, and speaker. Shira is the author of Minimalista and Organized Living, and has been featured in 100+ print and media outlets including Vogue, Dwell, Better Homes &amp; Gardens, House Beautiful, Architectural Digest, Domino, Forbes, Goop, Harper\u2019s Bazaar, HGTV, Today, InStyle, Parents, Real Simple, and The New York Times.<\/p>\n<\/p><\/div>\n<\/p><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-how-to-do-a-life-edit-an-organizing-expert-shares-her-insights\">How to Do a Life Edit\u2014An Organizing Expert Shares Her Insights<\/h2>\n<p>Every year on New Year\u2019s Eve, I sit down and rank each area of my life on a scale of 1 to 5, based on level of fulfillment and overall satisfaction. Once I\u2019ve ranked each area, I\u2019ll jot down some quick reflections, and note a thing or two I can do to improve each area for the following year. This exercise only takes me about thirty minutes and always helps me clarify where I want to focus my time, energy, and effort for the coming season, or even the coming year. <\/p>\n<p>Overachievers, take note\u2014the objective here is not to get a perfect score of five in each area of your life. In fact, it\u2019s the opposite. This process is designed to help you make intentional decisions about which areas can hang out on the back burner, and which areas need your attention most urgently. It\u2019s about making thoughtful, clear, and concrete decisions about what you can let go of (for now) instead of trying to do everything, and inevitably failing.<\/p>\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-career-and-finance\">Career and Finance<\/h3>\n<p>Score: 4<\/p>\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li><strong>Notes:<\/strong> Love my career, thriving creatively, need to start adulting with finances.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Priority:<\/strong> Bank account management.<\/li>\n<li><strong>First Little Step: <\/strong>Look at my bank account once a week to review income and expenses.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-leisure-and-recreation\">Leisure and Recreation<\/h3>\n<p>Score: 1<\/p>\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li><strong>Notes:<\/strong> Total rubbish at leisure, always working, no hobbies to speak of! (True story. The first time I took myself through this process, I ranked this category as a big fat 0, and, if I\u2019m being honest, it\u2019s still my most neglected area. In a culture that rewards achievement and celebrates being frenetically busy, it can be far too easy to forget to create space for relaxation. I realized that I need to schedule it to make it happen\u2014 to get that big boost in the mental health department and energy for the next big thing I want to cross off my to-do list.)<\/li>\n<li><strong>Priority:<\/strong> Add a relaxing activity.<\/li>\n<li><strong>First Little Step: <\/strong>Read for an hour in bed every Sunday morning before breakfast with the family.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-your-turn\">Your Turn<\/h3>\n<p>Let\u2019s do a quick audit of each area of your life to determine what needs the most care and attention right now. Just as a physician can\u2019t write a prescription without a clear diagnosis, you must assess how each area in your life is functioning before embarking on a plan toward transformation or change. You can use the broad categories I\u2019ll be outlining in the upcoming chapters (health and wellness, relationships and community, career and finance, home and environment, personal development) or create your own. Next, rank each category from 1 to 5, jot down any insights that arise, and take a little time to reflect so you can determine which area you want to invest in improving. <\/p>\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-to-recap\">To recap:<\/h3>\n<ol class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Jot down your broad categories (ideas include health, relationships, career, finance, environment, personal development, and spirituality).<\/li>\n<li>Rank each category from 1 to 5, based on level of satisfaction. These rankings are totally subjective\u2014be honest with yourself.<\/li>\n<li>Jot down any notes or insights.<\/li>\n<li>Pick ONE area to invest in improving right now.<\/li>\n<li>Write down any first little steps you\u2019d like to take to feel better about that area in your life.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<h4 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-if-you-feel-stuck-or-unsure-try-the-following-prompts\">If you feel stuck or unsure, try the following prompts:<\/h4>\n<p>\u2022 Which area of my life feels the most neglected?<\/p>\n<p>\u2022 What is calling out for my attention?<\/p>\n<p>\u2022 Which area do I most want to improve?<\/p>\n<p>\u2022 What is my deepest need right now?<\/p>\n<p>\u2022 What about the lives of others makes me feel the most envious?<\/p>\n<p>The most important thing is to gain clarity about where you want to invest your precious time, energy, and resources on purpose.<\/p>\n<p class=\"has-font-size-1-font-size\">\u201cLifeStyled\u201d Copyright \u00a9 2024 by Shira Gill. Photographs copyright \u00a9 2024 by Vivian Johnson. All rights reserved. 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