{"id":255001,"date":"2024-08-16T19:46:21","date_gmt":"2024-08-16T19:46:21","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/michigandigitalnews.com\/index.php\/2024\/08\/16\/are-only-children-really-self-centred-spoilt-and-lonely\/"},"modified":"2025-06-25T17:12:16","modified_gmt":"2025-06-25T17:12:16","slug":"are-only-children-really-self-centred-spoilt-and-lonely","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/michigandigitalnews.com\/index.php\/2024\/08\/16\/are-only-children-really-self-centred-spoilt-and-lonely\/","title":{"rendered":"Are only children really self-centred, spoilt and lonely?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p> [ad_1]<br \/>\n<\/p>\n<div id=\"\">\n<figure class=\"ArticleImage\">\n<div class=\"Image__Wrapper\"><img fetchpriority=\"high\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"Image\" width=\"1350\" height=\"900\" alt=\"New Scientist. Science news and long reads from expert journalists, covering developments in science, technology, health and the environment on the website and the magazine.\" src=\"https:\/\/images.newscientist.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/08\/06102744\/SEI_215982342.jpg\" sizes=\"(min-width: 1288px) 837px, (min-width: 1024px) calc(57.5vw + 55px), (min-width: 415px) calc(100vw - 40px), calc(70vw + 74px)\" srcset=\"https:\/\/images.newscientist.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/08\/06102744\/SEI_215982342.jpg?width=300 300w, https:\/\/images.newscientist.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/08\/06102744\/SEI_215982342.jpg?width=400 400w, https:\/\/images.newscientist.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/08\/06102744\/SEI_215982342.jpg?width=500 500w, https:\/\/images.newscientist.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/08\/06102744\/SEI_215982342.jpg?width=600 600w, https:\/\/images.newscientist.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/08\/06102744\/SEI_215982342.jpg?width=700 700w, https:\/\/images.newscientist.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/08\/06102744\/SEI_215982342.jpg?width=800 800w, https:\/\/images.newscientist.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/08\/06102744\/SEI_215982342.jpg?width=837 837w, https:\/\/images.newscientist.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/08\/06102744\/SEI_215982342.jpg?width=900 900w, https:\/\/images.newscientist.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/08\/06102744\/SEI_215982342.jpg?width=1003 1003w, https:\/\/images.newscientist.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/08\/06102744\/SEI_215982342.jpg?width=1100 1100w, https:\/\/images.newscientist.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/08\/06102744\/SEI_215982342.jpg?width=1200 1200w, https:\/\/images.newscientist.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/08\/06102744\/SEI_215982342.jpg?width=1300 1300w, https:\/\/images.newscientist.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/08\/06102744\/SEI_215982342.jpg?width=1400 1400w, https:\/\/images.newscientist.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/08\/06102744\/SEI_215982342.jpg?width=1500 1500w, https:\/\/images.newscientist.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/08\/06102744\/SEI_215982342.jpg?width=1600 1600w, https:\/\/images.newscientist.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/08\/06102744\/SEI_215982342.jpg?width=1674 1674w, https:\/\/images.newscientist.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/08\/06102744\/SEI_215982342.jpg?width=1700 1700w, https:\/\/images.newscientist.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/08\/06102744\/SEI_215982342.jpg?width=1800 1800w, https:\/\/images.newscientist.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/08\/06102744\/SEI_215982342.jpg?width=1900 1900w, https:\/\/images.newscientist.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/08\/06102744\/SEI_215982342.jpg?width=2006 2006w\" loading=\"eager\" fetchpriority=\"high\" data-image-context=\"Article\" data-image-id=\"2442781\" data-caption=\"\" data-credit=\"Michael Kirkham\"\/><\/div><figcaption class=\"ArticleImageCaption\"\/><\/figure>\n<\/p>\n<p>I am an only child. Saying this sometimes feels like a confession \u2013 not least when people respond with a well-meaning \u201coh, you don\u2019t seem like it!\u201d. Now, as the mother of a preschooler, I see my daughter navigating the same assumptions. \u201cDoes she have older siblings?\u201d one teacher asked recently. \u201cShe plays so well with the other kids!\u201d<\/p>\n<p>If it seems like I am bragging about my (or my daughter\u2019s) behaviour, you will have to excuse me: I am, after all, an only child.<\/p>\n<p>For over a century, we have been seen as odd, at best; antisocial, neurotic and narcissistic, at worst. \u201cBeing an only child is a disease in itself,\u201d declared 19th-century child psychologist Granville Stanley Hall.<\/p>\n<p>Whether there are actually any differences between the personalities and well-being of singleton children and those with siblings remains a contentious question \u2013 one given fresh impetus by the growing trend of one-and-done parenting.<\/p>\n<p>Single-child families have become more common since the 1970s in high-income countries, including the US and UK, whether \u201cby constraint or by choice\u201d, says \u00c9va Beaujouan, a demographer at the University of Vienna, Austria. In Europe, nearly half of all households with children have just one child.<\/p>\n<p>Despite their growing popularity, one-child families continue to encounter a long-held view that this arrangement is somehow harmful. Fortunately, delving into contemporary research can offer a degree of clarity \u2013 and it hints that being an only child can come with surprising outcomes. The findings may offer some reassurance for one-and-done parents and those still debating how many\u2026<\/p>\n<\/p><\/div>\n<p>[ad_2]<br \/>\n<br \/><a href=\"https:\/\/www.newscientist.com\/article\/mg26335032-100-self-centred-spoiled-and-lonely-examining-the-only-child-stereotype\/?utm_campaign=RSS%7CNSNS&#038;utm_source=NSNS&#038;utm_medium=RSS&#038;utm_content=home\">Source link <\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>[ad_1] I am an only child. 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